Slipping through my fingers...

讀龍應台新書《目送》，很感動；我與老豆的「心結」，沒完沒了。
人生在世，父女母子究竟是怎麼一回事？
入戲院看《Mamma Mia!》，歡天喜地歌舞片，當梅麗史翠普目送愛女出門一幕，唱的是ABBA名曲《Slipping Through My Fingers》，我竟然喊到飛起。
歌詞說到：

Slipping through my fingers all the time
I try to capture every minute
The feeling in it
Slipping through my fingers all the time
Do I really see what's in her mind
Each time I think Im close to knowing
She keeps on growing
Slipping through my fingers all the time

最好的時光，最天真的本我，在你不知不覺間，從指縫間溜走得無影無蹤......
小時候一家四人，一起看電視，一起食宵夜，和家姐守在窗旁等老豆收工回家，一切一切，從指縫間溜走得無影無蹤...
可以選擇的話，可以不成長嗎？
又或者如歌詞所說：將最好的畫面永遠凝住......駱克道舊唐樓，一層多戶，斗室中的快樂，無慮的快樂......

Sometimes I wish that I could freeze the picture
And save it from the funny tricks of time
Slipping through my fingers...

最好的，從指縫間溜走得無影無蹤...
或者，我真的應該結束冷戰，主動破冰......